It’s always one question that really confuses me. Whilst some friends say leave well alone, it will happen when you least expect it. Others say ‘put yourself out there’! They won’t come knocking on your door – some of the disturbing stories I have, I would hope they wouldn’t come knocking on my door.
It’s ok for my friends, they are all married or in relationships, some of them have even been married twice. I mean, come on that’s just greedy. I’ve not even been asked, yet she gets to have two wedding days. “Where is the justice?” I ask myself on a daily basis. Then they come round and cry about their other halves making a mess or not being completely fair with the TV remote whilst I smile at myself, sipping my tea and wonder why I’d even be looking for another relationship. Considering the fact I’m still single in my mid thirties, my track record for a relationship is hardly going to win any awards. I really do think this will never happen to me so if that is not least expecting it I don’t know what is. So I went against the grain and decided to put myself out there.